early last week my wife and I were on the verge of separating and she was looking for a house for herself and our children to live in. Last Wednesday night we started to sort things out between us very fast. It’s almost like we’ve fallen in love all over again and it took the realisation of loosing her to make me wake up and go to the loft room that she was sleeping in and tell her I wanted her back in our bedroom to sleep. There’s no tension between us now either. We’ve managed to get through so much pent up emotion really fast. So many things that were issues from the past have pretty much dissolved too.
Its amazing to think how close we were to finishing something that is actually very beautiful again. We went to see a counsellor on Monday, which was originally booked to help us decide about breaking up of trying one last time. By the time we went we had already decided that we wouldn’t break up, far from it tbh. I’ve actually said that if we get that far down the road again then we need to remember we got through it. Life’s very good again.
